tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5217271428057557189.post6535260343628865392..comments2024-03-24T16:08:20.300-07:00Comments on Training on Empty: Fear of intimacyLize Brittinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00851523224709625399noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5217271428057557189.post-17833280199035842502011-03-28T09:22:15.933-07:002011-03-28T09:22:15.933-07:00Thank you so much, GZ.Thank you so much, GZ.Lize Brittinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00851523224709625399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5217271428057557189.post-48174006453279361722011-03-27T19:28:32.544-07:002011-03-27T19:28:32.544-07:00Lize - wow. Raw honesty here. I think many deal ...Lize - wow. Raw honesty here. I think many deal with these sorts of issues but at different levels (depending on how we are wired, our chemistry - which drives me a bit batty because it makes me deal with how little is left to our choices). Sincerely appreciate the depth of your posts.GZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12623054918799881730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5217271428057557189.post-86306235372822122952011-03-26T07:53:19.177-07:002011-03-26T07:53:19.177-07:00Thank you so much, Deborah. I appreciate you reach...Thank you so much, Deborah. I appreciate you reaching out and your comment. That makes sense to me. I think it was a case of me hurting the other person initially, and both of us needing to work on communication. I'm definitely looking into things and trying to grow from this.Lize Brittinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00851523224709625399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5217271428057557189.post-44454611828171049512011-03-26T07:43:15.408-07:002011-03-26T07:43:15.408-07:00Hi Lize, What I've learned from years of thera...Hi Lize, What I've learned from years of therapy, and it took me a long time to accept this truth: You attract others in your life, whether they are intimate partners or best friends, who are at the same level emotionally as you are at the moment in time. So the person who has hurt your heart, has most likely the same struggles with communication and fear as intimacy as you do. As you grow emotionally, you will attract the same people in your life. Be open to change and hopefully have some peace in this note.Deborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10587658352909305386noreply@blogger.com